Love Talk with Martis The Love Coach
Welcome to Love Talk with Martis The Love Coach, a podcast dedicated to love, healing, self-worth, and healthy relationships. Each week, Martis shares relationship advice, answers anonymous listener letters, and offers self-healing gems to help you break unhealthy patterns, build confidence, and create the love you deserve. Whether you're single, dating, healing, or committed, this podcast is your safe space for growth, reflection, and transformation.
Episodes
27 episodes
Why Are We So Afraid to Admit We Want Love?
Why has wanting love started to feel like something we’re supposed to hide? In this episode of Love Talk with Martis The Love Coach, we’re having a real conversation about independence, vulnerability, dating after heartbreak,...
When Love Starts Feeling One-Sided: Are You the Only One Trying?
What happens when you love someone, but you’re starting to feel like you’re doing all the work?In this week’s Letters to the Love Coach, we’re talking about one-sided effort, feeling unappreciated in a marriage, always being the one to r...
Stop Falling for Potential: Date Who They Are TODAY
Are you in love with the person in front of you, or the person you're hoping they'll eventually become? ❤️In this week's Love Lesson, we're talking about the difference between chemistry and compatibility, why your partner ...
What If You Just Went For It?
What if you stopped overthinking it... and just went for it? In this week's Letters to the Love Coach, we're talking about taking chances in love, from sliding into the DMs of someone you're interested in, to reaching out to someone...
The Woman I Used to Be Isn't the Woman I Am Today
For the first time ever, there isn't a listener letter... there's a letter from me. In this special episode of Letters to the Love Coach, I open my heart and share my personal journey of growth, healing, accountability...
Real Love: What Marriage Has Taught Us (Featuring My Wife, Bee)
What does real love actually look like after the wedding? In this special episode of Love Talk with Martis The Love Coach, I'm joined by my very first guest, my wife, Bee, for an honest conversation about marriage, com...
Your Partner Isn't Your Past: How Unhealed Trauma Affects the Way You Love
Are you reacting to your partner... or to your past? In this week's episode of Love Talk with Martis The Love Coach, Martis answers two heartfelt listener letters about trust issues rooted in childhood and navigating a rel...
Sex Toys in the Bedroom: Threat or Tool?
Are sex toys helping relationships, or hurting them? In this episode of Love Lessons with Martis, we're having an honest, judgment-free conversation about intimacy, communication, insecurity, and trust. Why do some ...
Date With Intention... Not Confusion
Letters to the Love Coach Are you dating with purpose... or are you just going with the flow? In this week's Letters to the Love Coach, Martis answers three powerful listener questions about dating, commitment, an...
Standards vs. Unrealistic Expectations: Know the Difference
Have your standards become so high that nobody can meet them... or are they protecting your peace?This week on Love Lessons with Martis The Love Coach, we're talking about the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectat...
When You Feel Like You've Lost Yourself
Letters to the Love Coach – Episode 7 Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered, "When did I lose myself?" This week, we're talking about what happens when life starts to feel routine, when relation...
Child Support vs. Parenting: They're Not the Same Thing
Love Lessons with Martis – Episode [Insert Episode Number] Child support is important, but parenting is so much more than a monthly payment. In this episode, we're having an honest conversation about ...
The Conversations That Change Everything...
Letters to the Love Coach Ep 6Some conversations are uncomfortable... but avoiding them can cost you even more.This week, I'm answering two heartfelt listener letters about changing dreams in marriage and developing feelings for a...
Dating Profiles I Wish People Would Stop Writing
Love Lessons with Martis: Dating apps have changed the way we meet people, but some of these dating profiles? Whew... we need to have a conversation! In this fun episode of Love Lessons with Martis, we're reading...
When You're Giving More Than You're Getting
Letters to the Love Coach: Feeling like you're carrying more than your share in a relationship, friendship, or even within your own family? This week, we're talking about reciprocity, communication, financial partnerships, one-sided friends...
Love Lessons: Marriage Doesn't Fix What Dating Ignored
This week on Love Lessons with Martis, we're having one of the realest conversations yet.After hearing a husband share his frustrations about intimacy changing after marriage, I started thinking about something many couples ...
Letters to the Love Coach: Clarity Over Confusion
In this week's episode of Letters to the Love Coach, we're talking about honesty, commitment, dating, and the importance of clarity in relationships.What happens when one person wants marriage and the other doesn't? How do you know when ...
The Dating Resume: What Are You Really Bringing to the Table?
Everybody asks what someone else brings to the table, but what about you?In this episode of Love Lessons with Martis, we're talking about self-awareness, dating standards, emotional availability, communication, healing, and why becoming ...
Bonus Ep: Juneteenth, Freedom & The Journey of Becoming
Today we're taking a moment to honor Juneteenth, reflect on the meaning of freedom, and talk about how freedom isn't just historical, it's personal. Freedom from unhealthy relationships, unhealthy habits, self-doubt, and the things that keep us...
When Feelings Get Complicated: Married Men, Mixed Messages & Parenting Teens
In this week's episode of Letters to the Love Coach, we're talking about complicated situations and the choices we make when emotions get involved. What happens when you develop feelings for someone who is already married? ...
A Quick Love Note to My Listeners
Hey loves!This isn't one of my regular Wednesday or Friday episodes.Today, I just wanted to hop on for a few minutes and speak directly from my heart.First, I want to say thank you.Thank you to everyone ...
Love Lessons with Martis: You can't heal what you refuse to grieve
In this episode, we're talking about why grief isn't just about death—it's also about lost relationships, missed opportunities, broken dreams, career changes, and the versions of ourselves we've had to leave behind. Join me as we explore how...
The Many Faces of Grief: Healing After Loss
Grief isn't just about losing a loved one.Sometimes we grieve a relationship, a friendship, a job, a dream, or even the person we used to be.In this episode of Letters to the Love Coach, we're having an honest conversation a...
